Chapter 13 · 8 min read
A Light to Your Community: Being a Role Model
"Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven."
Matthew 5:14-16 (KJV) You are being watched. Your neighbors are watching you. Your relatives are watching you. Your children are watching you. The young women in your church are watching you. The unbelievers in your village are watching you. The way you speak, the way you carry yourself, the way you respond to trouble, the way you treat your husband, the way you spend your money — all of it is being observed. This is not to make you anxious. It is to make you mindful. Your life is a testimony. You will either honor the name of Christ, or you will bring reproach on it. Every day, you preach a sermon with your life, whether you intend to or not.
The Lord Jesus said that we are the light of the world. He did not say, "You can be the light if you try hard." He said, "You are the light." If you belong to Christ, you carry His light into every room you enter, every conversation you have, every shop you visit, and every household you join. The question is not whether you will shine. The question is whether your shining will draw people to God or cause them to stumble.
Let me show you several women from scripture who shone brightly in their communities.
Consider Esther. She was a young Jewish woman taken into the harem of King Xerxes of Persia.
By God's providence, she was chosen to be queen. But a wicked man named Haman plotted to destroy all the Jews in the empire. Her uncle Mordecai sent word to her: "Who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?" Esther, at the risk of her own life, approached the king uninvited and interceded for her people. Her courage, her wisdom, her godly character saved a nation. She used the position God gave her for His purposes.
Every one of us has been placed in a certain family, a certain neighborhood, a certain workplace, a certain church, a certain community. You are there for such a time as this. Do not waste your position.
Consider Ruth. She was a Moabite, a foreigner among the people of Israel. She could have been treated with suspicion. Instead, her godly character won her the respect of the entire town of Bethlehem. Boaz said to her, "All the city of my people doth know that thou art a virtuous woman."
All the city. They had watched her. They had watched how she worked in the fields. They had watched how she cared for her mother-in-law Naomi. They had watched her humility and her faithfulness. Her life preached louder than any sermon. And through her quiet witness, she became the great-grandmother of King David, and an ancestor of Jesus Christ.
Consider Lydia. When she came to faith in Philippi, she did not keep it to herself. Her whole household was baptized. She opened her home to Paul and the traveling ministers. The Philippian church was planted in her house. Her conversion rippled out into a whole community.
In our own land, we see the same pattern. When the gospel came to Uganda in the late 1800s, some of the earliest and most fearless witnesses were young converts in the royal court. When King Mwanga demanded that they deny Christ, they refused. Young men and boys were burned at Namugongo in 1886. Christian women who survived continued to witness. One of them was Sara Nalwanga, who lived to a great age and told the story of those early days to younger believers. The blood of the martyrs became the seed of the Church. And today, Uganda is sometimes called the Pearl of Africa in part because of the deep Christian heritage planted by those faithful witnesses.
A generation later, the East African Revival swept through Uganda, Rwanda, Tanzania, and Kenya. A central feature of the movement was "walking in the light" — an open, honest life where sin was confessed, reconciliation was sought, and purity of heart was guarded. Women were some of the most powerful witnesses. They would stand in meetings and testify to what God had done.
They would confess sins publicly — not dwelling on shameful details, but acknowledging the grace that had set them free. They would sing songs of victory in the Swahili and Luganda tongues.
And unbelievers, watching these transformed women, would say, "What has happened to her? I want what she has." That is being a light.
Let me speak practically about how you can be a role model in your community today.
First, be dependable. Keep your word. If you say you will be at the meeting, be there on time. If you say you will pay the loan, pay it. If you say you will help with the cooking, show up. A Christian woman who can be trusted is a rare and beautiful thing.
Second, be kind to everyone. Greet the neighbors. Smile at the children. Speak kindly to the taxi driver, the market seller, the watchman, the house worker. Do not be proud. Do not treat people differently because of their wealth or status. The Lord Jesus treated the poor and the rich, the educated and the uneducated, the respected and the outcast with the same love.
Third, be generous. When a neighbor is in need, help if you can. When a relative is struggling, share what you have. When the offering plate comes around, give cheerfully. When someone shares good news, rejoice with them. The world is full of tight hearts. Let yours be wide open.
Fourth, be honest in everything. Do not lie. Do not cheat. Do not give false weights at the market.
Do not pay a bribe. Do not accept a bribe. Do not steal electricity or water. Do not cut corners when your employer is not watching. A reputation for honesty is worth more than gold.
Fifth, be dignified. Dress modestly. Speak with self-control. Do not drink excessively. Do not be loud and quarrelsome. Do not entertain the gossip and vulgarity of the world. Carry yourself with the quiet confidence of a daughter of the King.
Sixth, share the gospel. If you are known as a loving, kind, dependable Christian, people will eventually ask what makes you different. When they do, be ready to tell them about Jesus. Peter said, "Be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear." You do not need to be a preacher. You need to be a witness.
Seventh, love your enemies. There will be people who dislike you. There will be neighbors who mistreat you. There will be family members who gossip against you. There will be perhaps even people in the church who stir up trouble. Do not repay evil for evil. Bless those who curse you.
Pray for those who spitefully use you. This is one of the hardest commands of our Lord, but it is one of the most powerful witnesses in a dark world.
Eighth, let your home be a witness. As we have said before, the home you keep — its peace, its order, its love, its hospitality — is a silent sermon that everyone who enters will receive.
Ninth, live with eternity in view. Remember that this world is not your home. You are passing through. The praise of men, the success of this life, the riches you accumulate — none of it comes with you to heaven. What matters is whether you have lived for Christ, loved others in His name, and been faithful to your calling. When you live with eternity in view, you live differently. You do not panic when trouble comes. You do not cling tightly to things that will pass away. You have peace because your treasure is in heaven, where neither moth nor rust corrupts.
Let your light shine, sister. Let it shine in your home, in your street, in your village, in your workplace, in your church, in your WhatsApp groups, in every place where God has placed you.
Do not hide it. Do not dim it out of fear of what others will think. A city on a hill cannot be hidden.
You are that city. The world is watching. Shine for the glory of your Father in heaven.
A Prayer Father, make me a light in my community. May my life point to Jesus. May my words carry Your truth. May my actions carry Your love. Forgive me for the times my light has been dim or hidden. Fill me afresh with Your Holy Spirit. Use me where You have placed me.
Let my family, my neighbors, and my community see You through me, and glorify You because of my witness. In the name of Jesus, the Light of the World, Amen.